DO: Compliment a woman. Something I think men these days have forgotten how to do.
What's up with dudes these days, anyways? They only want, want, want, and it's all things for themselves. I swear, men are some of the most selfish, unemotional (towards women) people on earth. (And no, I did not have a bad experience with a guy, this is just something that has been slapping me in the face, over and over again. You can't escape the egotistical, selfish man.)
Men are so dusfunct, it's actually discouraging to us ladies. Where are all of the legit dudes? I mean, really. Enough is enough. I want to find a man who's as confident and kind, and he is gorgeous. I want a man who loves Jesus just a little more than he loves his dogs. I want a man who's idea of spending time with me, is taking me to an art gallery, and then coming home to share a glass of wine and actually hold a conversation about good music and the latest fashion trends, as well as what's going on in the world. I want a man who's idea of spontaneity is taking me to brooklyn because he knows this place that has the best ice cream in NY. I want a man who knows how to hustle and has ambition not someone who spends their entire weekend indoors watching television and eating cold pizza, just because he's a dude and he can. I want a man who doesn't look at me as second best, no matter what, because he would never be second best in my book. I want a man who's idea of a good time isn't a night out at the bar, but a night together, whatever it may be that you're doing.
A girl can dream.
If I've come to one conclusion in my dating life, it's that chivalry is definitely dead. I just want to be the best part of someone's day. Is that so much to ask? Apparently.
So, "men", put on a nice outfit (i.e.: skinny jeans, a vintage tee and a leather bomber jacket) and come whisk me away to an art gallery in brooklyn. I hear brooklyn's the new town for loooove. Wishful thinking.
